Ill be curious to see how this site is managed. when phobic people are forced to provide a service for any group of people that they apparently have problems with can the outcome be good?
i agree with you...i dont see how they would be any more successful either....however they do claim that they have followed up with their couples that got married and according to them, have a very high "satisfaction" rating with the marriage...who knows...
and no, i dont think their decision create a service for the gay community was money driven at all either...i am sure it was in response to the law suit....however, i was just thinking that the company probably figures it was best to settle the suit this way, and have more money coming in rather than paying out if they lost the suit. they also state they do reject a certain number of "applicants" so, there could be a limited number of people in the pool to whom one could be matched.....but no matter to me....i certainly wont be applying....
not only the homophobic issue and the fact that this is probably only in response to the lawsuit filed in california that eHarmony violated california's laws prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.....the commercials from the site claim that they make matches based on....(hmmm, cant remember how many...)...a certain number of points of compatibility from the founder's 35 years as a clinical psychologist and marriage counselor to heterosexual couples....would that necessarily translate into compatibility in same sex couples???
im not sure that the compatibility test would translate into compatibility for any couples het or gay. ive seen the questionaire, its pretty general and it relies on insight and integrity from the person filling it out and from the person that they are matched up with not to mention whatever program does the matches. it also assumes that people who have certain "qualities" for lack of a better term, all like the same kind of person. it sounds good tho and people are more likely to shell out some money if it sounds like a scientific match rather than a chance thing. do an experiment and fill out a profile with a hotmail addy and see if the person they match you with would be anyone youd really date. but on the whole, i suspect the site would end up being like the aol glbt boards, supposedly created for the glbt community but participation subjects us to unchecked hate crimes and proselytizers. im glad that they cant discriminate but i dont think their service is any more likely than say match.com to produce a real compatible partner.
oh well, guess it wont matter to eHarmony, 'cause gay or str8....the money is still green right???
i think tho that there is more than money involved in the original decision to not offer services to glbt people. if it were about the money the founders would have offered that choice from the beginning. its rare to see a dating site that doesnt offer all options. but they didnt and now that they are sort of forced to do so, they are creating a separate site rather than offering same sex options on the original site. if the founders are or employ clinical psychologists to work this site this seems an odd choice and an odd response to the court decision. even to state that they have 35 years of marriage counseling experience with het couples is an odd statement. it sort of leads one to believe that theyve either never had a gay couple come to them for therapy which is in itself remarkable or that they have turned away gay clients either because they felt they were not qualified to work with them or they made a decision to not become qualified. theres sort of a pattern there from where i sit.
Ill be curious to see how this site is managed. when phobic people are forced to provide a service for any group of people that they apparently have problems with can the outcome be good?
Ill be curious to see how this site is managed. when phobic people are forced to provide a service for any group of people that they apparently have problems with can the outcome be good?
Ill be curious to see how this site is managed. when phobic people are forced to provide a service for any group of people that they apparently have problems with can the outcome be good?
Ill be curious to see how this site is managed. when phobic people are forced to provide a service for any group of people that they apparently have problems with can the outcome be good?
not only the homophobic issue and the fact that this is probably only in response to the lawsuit filed in california that eHarmony violated california's laws prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation.....the commercials from the site claim that they make matches based on....(hmmm, cant remember how many...)...a certain number of points of compatibility from the founder's 35 years as a clinical psychologist and marriage counselor to heterosexual couples....would that necessarily translate into compatibility in same sex couples???
oh well, guess it wont matter to eHarmony, 'cause gay or str8....the money is still green right???
Ill be curious to see how this site is managed. when phobic people are forced to provide a service for any group of people that they apparently have problems with can the outcome be good?