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I hope your viewing did not comprimise your computer. Reports are that mal ware is attached to the video on a lot of sites from those taking advantage of her.

i didnt watch the video. they showed portions of it on tv tho none where she is in the picture.  there is an investigation going on surrounding these incidents. i wouldnt go to one of those sites to look, that would be exploitive. if there was no market for this there would be fewer reasons to try it.


Just like whom ever shot the video did. I'm surprised you have leaned toward the victimization side. Even TMZ showed restraint and, see it as an invasion of her privicy. And any woman should see it as objectification like a drunk Joe Nameth grouping another and, once again to a woman entering the male sports world with intent to compete with the big boys. Gator

oh i do see it as an objectification and i do see it as exploitive and abusive.  my big concern here is that it isnt as it seems and if thats the case it hurts all women.  i think that someone she knows is responsible for what happened and its someone who has access to her schedule and itineraries. that would, i think, narrow the list of possible suspects to a few.  if its her manager for instance that would be exploitive for sure and a disregard for the position that shes worked hard to achieve but it wouldnt be the first time that someone close to a beautiful woman took that route to "promote" (for lack of a better word) her. look at all the sex tapes that show up on the net with these young starlets. the release of the tapes gets them in the media spotlight and for some, like paris hilton, it launches a career. very few people knew erin andrews before this incident, now, for a few moments at least, shes a household name.  it sucks that people do these things, but they do and im really hopeful thats not the case here tho if its not then the situation might even be worse. the only other scenario that fits the facts of this is that she may have a stalker. if thats the case then identifying that individual and arresting him/her should be fairly easy. most hotels have security cameras in the hallway and so someone breaking into the room next door or someone who is legitimately in the room next door should be easily identifiable. if they find this person i hope they use every stalker law on the books to put them away no matter who it turns out to be.




 




I hope the hotel cooperates to the fullest, security tapes, access to the adjoining rooms and staff and guest lists. Then I hope they identify and put the slimeball behind the camera to shame and bankrupt him/her/them.  Erin Andrews was not in need of this type of notoriety for ratings. Neither is her changing clothes, readying for a shower or sleeping and walking around naked her "fault". According to what was most recently reported it seems there is a drill hole in an adjacent room. The punitive aspect of this is huge. Getting her job done requires overnight accomodations, it could be a long time before Andrews is comfortable in any setting other than her own home, if that. 



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Someone say they want to see anyone naked *except* me?

Don't be so hard on yourself. I did not say anyone except you. I said everyone here except you. There could be exception but, I would have to be forced to think about it. lol

I'll go first. The obvious is not always obvious. As for who anyone might think my likely choice is not correct. :) She is more the answer to who I would *kill* over for the opp to "court". 

As for naked? I looked at it from a generational perpsepective. Here they are, 20's, 39 and 50 something.

 

I don't care to see anyone naked that is a young enough age that I could have given birth to them.

 


A couple of faces are noticeably missing, I don't want overkill. Elizabeth Perkins, Mary Louise Parker and someone right here, around the corner ;) Oh, and fwiw, one of the aforementioned is on the record as a well adjusted bisexual, who I'm planning a trip to see play in Austin at the end of August.

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I wasn't feeling left out, at all. I just had a difficult time understanding what the hell the comment intended. It's quite clear now. Too, 20 somethings would be surprised to hear they aren't included in the category of"women". eh, whatever. And to the other backhanded question? For the privileged.



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youre going to austin to hear music?  lucky woman!




I've been to Houston a few times but never went to Texas for fun. She's playing Michigan Womyns on the 8th of Aug and I WOULD LOVE TO GO.  Can't. Anyway Austins as close as I can get to this artist, this tour. I'm looking forward to seeing the town. It wont be a long trip, at all. I never hear a bad thing about Austin. And people do so love to talk about the negative. Anyway, I've also now planned a drive up to Georgia (though I may still fly, 16 hrs of driving in 2 days is alot) mid August for a different artist who I was NOT at all expecting to crop up. It may have made my November plans a little less frenzied? wink.gif Obsessive? Determined? I've officially went "direct mail". It's pleasantly effective, still. Gawd I haven't been here in forever. The first potato salad recipe I see I am outta here. I probably shouldn't say outta here, lessin' I mean it. Ah well. :)



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I hope your viewing did not comprimise your computer. Reports are that mal ware is attached to the video on a lot of sites from those taking advantage of her.

i didnt watch the video. they showed portions of it on tv tho none where she is in the picture.  there is an investigation going on surrounding these incidents. i wouldnt go to one of those sites to look, that would be exploitive. if there was no market for this there would be fewer reasons to try it.


Just like whom ever shot the video did. I'm surprised you have leaned toward the victimization side. Even TMZ showed restraint and, see it as an invasion of her privicy. And any woman should see it as objectification like a drunk Joe Nameth grouping another and, once again to a woman entering the male sports world with intent to compete with the big boys. Gator

oh i do see it as an objectification and i do see it as exploitive and abusive.  my big concern here is that it isnt as it seems and if thats the case it hurts all women.  i think that someone she knows is responsible for what happened and its someone who has access to her schedule and itineraries. that would, i think, narrow the list of possible suspects to a few.  if its her manager for instance that would be exploitive for sure and a disregard for the position that shes worked hard to achieve but it wouldnt be the first time that someone close to a beautiful woman took that route to "promote" (for lack of a better word) her. look at all the sex tapes that show up on the net with these young starlets. the release of the tapes gets them in the media spotlight and for some, like paris hilton, it launches a career. very few people knew erin andrews before this incident, now, for a few moments at least, shes a household name.  it sucks that people do these things, but they do and im really hopeful thats not the case here tho if its not then the situation might even be worse. the only other scenario that fits the facts of this is that she may have a stalker. if thats the case then identifying that individual and arresting him/her should be fairly easy. most hotels have security cameras in the hallway and so someone breaking into the room next door or someone who is legitimately in the room next door should be easily identifiable. if they find this person i hope they use every stalker law on the books to put them away no matter who it turns out to be.




 



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LOS ANGELES, July 17, 2009 /PRNewswire via COMTEX/ ----With respect to recent Internet postings of Erin Andrews, she has authorized her attorney, Marshall B. Grossman of Bingham McCutchen LLP, to issue the following statement:

"While alone in the privacy of her hotel room, Erin Andrews was surreptitiously videotaped without her knowledge or consent. She was the victim of a crime and is taking action to protect herself and help ensure that others are not similarly violated in the future. Although the perpetrator or perpetrators of this criminal act have not yet been identified, when they are identified she intends to bring both civil and criminal charges against them and against anyone who has published the material. We request respect of Erin's privacy at this time, while she and her representatives are working with the authorities."

SOURCE Bingham McCutchen LLP

 



im still waiting for the other shoe to drop here. apparently there were at least two different hotel rooms where these videos were shot so the thinking is that its someone she knows or works with.  obviously they didnt do it for the money because they prolly could have sold it to some smut mag or gossip website but they didnt which leads to a big hmmm. and since it happened on more than one occasion we know that its not someone who saw her in the hallway by chance and took a peep, and we know its not a hotel employee since more than one hotel was involved.  its someone who knew which hotels and rooms shed be staying in, knew her schedule and managed to get an adjoining room on more than one occasion since the angles of the videos apparently are greater than what might be viewed thru the door peephole and theres no telescoping effect. one would think that a look at who had the room next door might lead to a big clue. usually you have to show id to get a hotel room.

 

 




I hope your viewing did not comprimise your computer. Reports are that mal ware is attached to the video on a lot of sites from those taking advantage of her. Just like whom ever shot the video did. I'm surprised you have leaned toward the victimization side. Even TMZ showed restraint and, see it as an invasion of her privicy. And any woman should see it as objectification like a drunk Joe Nameth grouping another and, once again to a woman entering the male sports world with intent to compete with the big boys. Gator



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LOS ANGELES, July 17, 2009 /PRNewswire via COMTEX/ ----With respect to recent Internet postings of Erin Andrews, she has authorized her attorney, Marshall B. Grossman of Bingham McCutchen LLP, to issue the following statement:

"While alone in the privacy of her hotel room, Erin Andrews was surreptitiously videotaped without her knowledge or consent. She was the victim of a crime and is taking action to protect herself and help ensure that others are not similarly violated in the future. Although the perpetrator or perpetrators of this criminal act have not yet been identified, when they are identified she intends to bring both civil and criminal charges against them and against anyone who has published the material. We request respect of Erin's privacy at this time, while she and her representatives are working with the authorities."

SOURCE Bingham McCutchen LLP

 



im still waiting for the other shoe to drop here. apparently there were at least two different hotel rooms where these videos were shot so the thinking is that its someone she knows or works with.  obviously they didnt do it for the money because they prolly could have sold it to some smut mag or gossip website but they didnt which leads to a big hmmm. and since it happened on more than one occasion we know that its not someone who saw her in the hallway by chance and took a peep, and we know its not a hotel employee since more than one hotel was involved.  its someone who knew which hotels and rooms shed be staying in, knew her schedule and managed to get an adjoining room on more than one occasion since the angles of the videos apparently are greater than what might be viewed thru the door peephole and theres no telescoping effect. one would think that a look at who had the room next door might lead to a big clue. usually you have to show id to get a hotel room.

 



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As for naked? I looked at it from a generational perpsepective. Here they are, 20's, 39 and 50 something.

I don't care to see anyone naked that is a young enough age that I could have given birth to them.

im with you here.

 


 




 



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LOS ANGELES, July 17, 2009 /PRNewswire via COMTEX/ ----With respect to recent Internet postings of Erin Andrews, she has authorized her attorney, Marshall B. Grossman of Bingham McCutchen LLP, to issue the following statement:

"While alone in the privacy of her hotel room, Erin Andrews was surreptitiously videotaped without her knowledge or consent. She was the victim of a crime and is taking action to protect herself and help ensure that others are not similarly violated in the future. Although the perpetrator or perpetrators of this criminal act have not yet been identified, when they are identified she intends to bring both civil and criminal charges against them and against anyone who has published the material. We request respect of Erin's privacy at this time, while she and her representatives are working with the authorities."

SOURCE Bingham McCutchen LLP



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Someone say they want to see anyone naked *except* me?

Don't be so hard on yourself. I did not say anyone except you. I said everyone here except you. There could be exception but, I would have to be forced to think about it. lol

I'll go first. The obvious is not always obvious. As for who anyone might think my likely choice is not correct. :) She is more the answer to who I would *kill* over for the opp to "court". 

As for naked? I looked at it from a generational perpsepective. Here they are, 20's, 39 and 50 something.

 

I don't care to see anyone naked that is a young enough age that I could have given birth to them.

 


A couple of faces are noticeably missing, I don't want overkill. Elizabeth Perkins, Mary Louise Parker and someone right here, around the corner ;) Oh, and fwiw, one of the aforementioned is on the record as a well adjusted bisexual, who I'm planning a trip to see play in Austin at the end of August.

Is the name of whom a secret or, only for the special privileged few? Gator


 



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who would you like to see naked?

weg:> everyone here except BD. you go first.......................... btw.....the sportscaster (who has a very healthy career)  is a victim of a crime currently being investigated. This type of crime occurs a lot yet, goes undetected. Be sure and, check those rips in the wallpaper and, false mirrors when staying in a hotel. Gator

 



yeah ive heard this and saw a documentary on it once. tho why i dont know. i suppose its about hoping to catch people in some sexual act.

or to fulfill some sick perverted mindset that is thrilled to intrude on an others privacy..............such as............. and,  beyond sex acts............. to include nose picking, and, other normally rather not witness type of things
i remember hearing stories about one of those rent by the hour hotels in ct where they filmed people having sex and sold the videos and someone saw themselves on some website. it was all hush hush tho thats the rumor about it. yep this stuff is a crime. and im really hoping that it turns out that this sportscasters filming isnt an inside job.

i can assure you if it was it was without her permission and, again.............is a crime. and, a creep there too. if so

tho thats a bad thing to wish for since that means it was some creep. the camera angles seem a bit suspect tho for a peephole. and someone would really have to be very brash to be standing in the hall with a camera. anyone could open the door and then there is the aspect of it being leaked but not sold. id imagine that would have brought in some serious money.   for every person who does this kind of stuff to get attention there are dozens of real victims who wont be taken seriously.

I think watching it would further victimize her. And, for every person who does diminishes the seriousness of the crime committed on all victims of this sort of thing. Gator

 




 



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who would you like to see naked?

weg:> everyone here except BD. you go first.......................... btw.....the sportscaster (who has a very healthy career)  is a victim of a crime currently being investigated. This type of crime occurs a lot yet, goes undetected. Be sure and, check those rips in the wallpaper and, false mirrors when staying in a hotel. Gator

 



yeah ive heard this and saw a documentary on it once. tho why i dont know. i suppose its about hoping to catch people in some sexual act. i remember hearing stories about one of those rent by the hour hotels in ct where they filmed people having sex and sold the videos and someone saw themselves on some website. it was all hush hush tho thats the rumor about it. yep this stuff is a crime. and im really hoping that it turns out that this sportscasters filming isnt an inside job. tho thats a bad thing to wish for since that means it was some creep. the camera angles seem a bit suspect tho for a peephole. and someone would really have to be very brash to be standing in the hall with a camera. anyone could open the door and then there is the aspect of it being leaked but not sold. id imagine that would have brought in some serious money.   for every person who does this kind of stuff to get attention there are dozens of real victims who wont be taken seriously.

 



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youre going to austin to hear music?  lucky woman!

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I'll go first. The obvious is not always obvious. As for who anyone might think my likely choice is not correct. :) She is more the answer to who I would *kill* over for the opp to "court". 

As for naked? I looked at it from a generational perpsepective. Here they are, 20's, 39 and 50 something.

A couple of faces are noticeably missing, I don't want overkill. Elizabeth Perkins, Mary Louise Parker and someone right here, around the corner ;) Oh, and fwiw, one of the aforementioned is on the record as a well adjusted bisexual, who I'm planning a trip to see play in Austin at the end of August.

woo hooo. may i suggest the casually spilled drink in the green room? oh my! i am so sorry why dont you just remove those clothes and ill just clean them up for you in a jiffy!


 



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I am not sure how I feel about the fake body parts statement below.  I know many people who have had surgery of one sort or another, from chin implants, breast implants, nose jobs, face lifts, eye lid lifts, tummy tucks, eye surgery, and lipo.  From what I see, anything that boosts someone's self-esteem and makes them more confident also makes them much sexier.  A woman who feels they look their best is sexy as hell, both in and out of the bedroom.  I find that self-confidence very attractive.<-mt

oh i agree that self confidence is a turn on and, really, i dont have anything against women doing these things. people are free to do what they wish as long as they are not hurting anyone as far as im concerned. but this is just not something i find attractive. i like those eye crinkles and laugh lines and i prefer women with soft curves and soft breasts and faces that express what goes on inside rather than that frozen startled look that i see so often.  and while i do love a confident woman, i think the kind of self confidence that appeals to me is the kind that comes from being comfortable in ones own skin. i do recognize that there are some people who find the other attractive i just aint one of them. and dont get me started on makeup:)




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Interesting topic!  I don't really have any celebrities or famous women I would like to see naked.  I find many celebrities attractive simply because of their faces.  But I would much rather see the naked body of the woman I love, whom I can kiss and hold and make love to.  Although, I do enjoy looking at art work involving the female form, but from an artistic perspective.  I can't say that it arouses me in anyway. It's simply appreciation for the beautiful picture, photograph or sculpture.  

I am not sure how I feel about the fake body parts statement below.  I know many people who have had surgery of one sort or another, from chin implants, breast implants, nose jobs, face lifts, eye lid lifts, tummy tucks, eye surgery, and lipo.  From what I see, anything that boosts someone's self-esteem and makes them more confident also makes them much sexier.  A woman who feels they look their best is sexy as hell, both in and out of the bedroom.  I find that self-confidence very attractive.

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who would you like to see naked?

weg:> everyone here except BD. you go first..........................

 




LOL...no, you first!

 




No fair ! That so sounds  like something a nudist would say.;) Gator



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I'll go first. The obvious is not always obvious. As for who anyone might think my likely choice is not correct. :) She is more the answer to who I would *kill* over for the opp to "court". 

As for naked? I looked at it from a generational perpsepective. Here they are, 20's, 39 and 50 something.

A couple of faces are noticeably missing, I don't want overkill. Elizabeth Perkins, Mary Louise Parker and someone right here, around the corner ;) Oh, and fwiw, one of the aforementioned is on the record as a well adjusted bisexual, who I'm planning a trip to see play in Austin at the end of August.



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who would you like to see naked?

weg:> everyone here except BD. you go first..........................

 




LOL...no, you first!



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who would you like to see naked? 

weg:> everyone here except BD. you go first.......................... btw.....the sportscaster (who has a very healthy career)  is a victim of a crime currently being investigated. This type of crime occurs a lot yet, goes undetected. Be sure and, check those rips in the wallpaper and, false mirrors when staying in a hotel. Gator


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who would you like to see naked? 

im watching this story on tv about a sportscaster who was filmed thru a peephole in her hotel room and the vid was placed on the net.  some are now saying it was an inside job to get attention for her dying career tho who knows? id like to think that nobody is that desperate to stay in the headlines.

the pathology of peepholery aside, hearing this story made me think about seeing people naked. i guess the hormonal storm of youth has passed by long ago so that im not thinking of naked women every 12 seconds but hearing that story made me think of the whole idea of nakedness and eroticism of the healthy variety anyway and i wondered who i would like to see naked.


maybe martina navratilova. yes, i think id like to see martina naked. only if shes willing of course. that peephole stuff is beyond creepy. but her body seems real. the  fluffy types with the fake body parts? nah. thats all too  stepfordish to be attractive. at least imo




There is no shortage of gorgeous women out there in the world.  I'm sure that they are all fantastic to look at nude.  I'm just not the voyueristic type.  Unless that woman is standing naked in front of me, for me, it's merely just a beautiful body.  It's a body to be admired, but I can't say that any one is better or worse than another.  Not to mention, I don't know the names of the majority of the young, beautiful specimens in the media today.



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who would you like to see naked? 

im watching this story on tv about a sportscaster who was filmed thru a peephole in her hotel room and the vid was placed on the net.  some are now saying it was an inside job to get attention for her dying career tho who knows? id like to think that nobody is that desperate to stay in the headlines.

the pathology of peepholery aside, hearing this story made me think about seeing people naked. i guess the hormonal storm of youth has passed by long ago so that im not thinking of naked women every 12 seconds but hearing that story made me think of the whole idea of nakedness and eroticism of the healthy variety anyway and i wondered who i would like to see naked.


maybe martina navratilova. yes, i think id like to see martina naked. only if shes willing of course. that peephole stuff is beyond creepy. but her body seems real. the  fluffy types with the fake body parts? nah. thats all too  stepfordish to be attractive. at least imo

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